It’s Time To Do Things Differently.
Falling in love is simple. Staying in love is another thing entirely. We all want amazing relationships and yet rarely do we think much further than getting past finding ‘the one’.
You want your relationship to go the distance – you want it to thrive! You want to defy the odds and be one of those happily-ever-after-for-real relationships right? To give yourself a fighting chance, you’re going to have to try something new.
That’s where the Relationship Checkup comes in!
Here’s the truth: happy & healthy relationships are WORK!!
Plus the expectations of relationships these days are so big, it’s almost impossible to create long-lasting fulfillment and connection.
We’ve gone from what was essentially a business arrangement to a romanticized and idealized illusion of “My partner is my everything, my Soulmate”:
- My best friend & confidante
- My passionate lover & partner in crime
- My social network and entertainment
- My inspiration & motivation
- My nurturer and a soft place to fall when things are hard
- My intellectual equal
- My co-parenting partner
- My money manager/partner
- My teammate in the day-to-day-mundane chores
And the list goes on….
Put those idealized expectations together with ineffective communication styles, unproductive coping methods, plus go-nowhere relationship patterns from your past, and it’s no wonder love fails so often!
“The Relationship Checkup is helping us keep the honeymoon alive! We learned a lot about each other and what we can do to support each other better.
We have a better idea of what we want for the future and a plan that will help get us there.”
~ Dave & Tara
Now there’s a program with a real plan. The Relationship Checkup will help you address all the most common relationship complaints with a clear structure. Imagine having a plan and tools that will guide you through even the most frustrating, complicated, and uncomfortable situations:
- What if you could learn a productive way to tell your partner what you needed?
- What if you actually felt heard?
- What if you were actually comfortable dealing with your partner’s feelings?
- What if conflict was no longer scary?
- What if you could keep the passion and romance alive?
Your relationship CAN go the distance!
“Working with Heather and doing the Relationship Checkup opened our eyes to how we’re going to get our ‘happily-ever-after’.
We learned some great tools that will support us in staying connected and satisfied for years to come!”
~ Shawn & Keara
What if you had real confidence that you and your partner were going to become one of those couples? You know the ones – the couple everyone is silently annoyed at and envious of all at the same time. The ones that are still being all lovey-dovey and happy after decades of being together. What if that could be you?
It’s time to learn something new. Using a research-based and scientifically proven method you’ll get headed off into the sunset in no time. With this is a preemptive approach you’ll be fortifying your relationship against the long-term (and 50% +) likelihood that it will fail.
Don’t be a statistic.
The time to start is NOW. Whether you’re at the beginning of something great and want to keep it that way or you’re a little
further down the road and recognize there’s an unfavorable drift happening, now is the time to start.
“The time to repair the roof is when the sun is shining.”
– John F. Kennedy
The Relationship Checkup is a research-based approach to managing relationships that turns the original paradigm on its head.
Using over 40 years of proven research, Dr. John Gottman designed a process to rapidly get to the root issues in your relationship.
In just three 90-minute sessions (plus an in-depth online assessment) you’ll walk away with a clear understanding of the health of your relationship.
Essentially you’ll learn:
- Are we on track?
- If so, how do we keep it that way?
- If not, can we get back on track?
- How can we get back on track?
- What are tools we can use to ongoingly keep us happy and satisfied?
Imagine having the confidence of knowing how healthy your relationship is!
Don’t spend any more time wondering.
Discover the health of the friendship in your relationship. Then learn what you can do to strengthen it using specifically designed tools created from the Gottman research. See the true strengths of your relationship and explore various ways of expanding those. This will help you continue to improve your connection and happiness over time.
Learn how you currently solve problems and manage conflict – does it work or not? Then identify constructive ways to have difficult conversations that ensure you feel supported and heard rather than shut down or disconnected. Sound too good tobe true? You also get specifically designed tools created from the Gottman research to help you achieve this!
Know where you’re going.
Figure out how and where you can make a real difference in the happiness and satisfaction of your relationship. Learn about Gottman tools to support you in defining and establishing your long-term relationship goals; making sure you and your partner are on the same page and set up to support each other in fulfilling those life dreams.
In a short period of time, you’ll have a plan that will support you in knowing what to work on and how. Plus a structure to help you celebrate the good stuff you’ve already got going on – even if you’ve kind of forgotten about some of it.
You have the power to be an active player in the success and happiness of your relationship!
Otherwise, left to run its course (because that’s often easier than facing issues) the quality and happiness of your relationship WILL decline – that’s not up for debate.
So let’s not leave it alone. Let’s do something that will make a difference NOW and set you up with the tools to talk to each other in a way that builds connection and manages problems at the same time. Let’s teach you how to take care of misunderstandings and frustrations in a healthy way that brings you and your partner closer together, for the long haul.
Ready to learn more? Get in touch to set up your free consultation: